People will always have the choice here to not read/participate in whatever thread that they come across. Censorship might be ok... but I feel that it is more dangerous to censor everything to avoid hurt feelings than it is to not.
MF is, however, not a "public place" but a privately owned forum. If a moderator feels that something is not appropriate, they have the right (and my support, they do run the place after-all) to take whatever action that they feel necessary.
For me: If walking on eggshells, I just put on some boots.