it is no longer in iTunes...when I sign on to the cloud and click on settings it is listed under my devices,
then I click on settings at top, find my phone, sign in again, all devices, it is not listed...so that is what I mean when I say its in the cloud but its not...sorry but it is confusing me! anyways, I went to icloud/activationlock and put in the serial #, it shows that it is not locked and ready to resale...wonder how I can delete it? when you click on it nothing happens..oh well at least it is unlocked