Cars are good for the environment without gasoline. Guns are safe without cartridges. I appreciate the line of argument, but I find it oddly dissatisfying. Shortly after I bought my SE and power adaptor, my computer had a problem and had to be sent in for repair. Without the adaptor, that would have left me with no way to charge the phone.
Note: I'm not savvy enough to know which chargers/cords are interchangeable with which devices, and I lie awake at night thinking about how the wrong decision might blow up my equipment (and my home).
On a broader note, technology is not "liberating" us from anything. Rather, technology is forcing us to do what technology wants. Can anyone living in 2021 decide that they are going to live without a smart phone? We are all now technology's slaves. The genie is out of the bottle. Heaven help us.
Using your analogies, when you buy the car, does it come with all the gasoline you may need? Does the dealership tell you that you may need to buy fuel for it? Or change the oil, or do servicing on it. Do you not know that a gun without ammunition is just a hunk of metal? Is it not your expectation that you will need to buy ammunition over and over?
Do you need to be told every little detail of what you buy? Take the wrapper off the hamburger before you eat it? Don't try this at home? Coffee is hot, don't hold it between your legs while driving? People today don't think at all. Why is it "dissatisfying" to hear that Apple can't win, either way? Apple chose to stop providing chargers by default and said that was because chargers are ubiquitous now. The press attacked them, but I note that Samsung is now also not providing chargers any more, so maybe Apple was just out front on this one.
One of the benefits of buying in a real store, rather than online, is that the salesperson usually asks, "Is that all you wanted?" and maybe that triggers the buyer to remember that other item that was needed. But buying online there is no such reminder, so we end up buying later. But when I forget to buy something, it's not the fault of the store, or the salesperson or the website. It's me. And I can't blame anybody but me for not asking, "Do I need anything else?" before I close the deal.
If you want to be a slave to technology, you can. Or, you can tame the technology and use it to your advantage. You don't need to spend endless hours staring at your phone, or your computer, or your TV. You do what you choose to do. Technology is part of it. So is everything else around you. How much time you spend on any area is up to you.