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hhmmm interesting.


everything has me thinking so much lately! sigh.

im going to go take a shower and think about it some more.
 
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I like your sig iKitten! :D

Well, throughout my relationship guys have come but I never payed attention to them but with this new one it's different. He's good looking, has a lot of great qualities. He's been calling me and we've been talking more and I'm falling for him. He seems well put together.

Then on the other hand you've been with someone so long and you're so used to them. I've always thought he was the one for me, so it's scary to think that maybe he's not. But I'm young and I also want to see what else is out there. Well, we'll see what happens at Disneyland tomorrow.

Again, I really appreciate all of your advice. :)

EDIT: BTW, where was my boyfriend last night while I was talking to Nick?????? With his friends, that are a bunch of low lifes!
 
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Netty, I wish you joy and a wonderful time tomorrow! :D

(I thought Ghostshadow's quote might clue in some who don't realize I'm a girl.)
 
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Thanks iKitten! :D
 
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Netty, have a wonderful time tomorrow (and say Hi! to Mickey and Minnie for me)!!!! Just enjoy the day and let it happen. Just be yourself and let him be himself. After a day or two, dream ahead to 10 or 20 years. How could life look with your bf? How could life look with this new guy? Where do you want to be?
 
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Heheh! I'm the representative of an evil corporation!! HEH!
 
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My old college FINALLY mailed me my Associate's Degree. That makes me happy.
 
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Netty, I wish you joy and a wonderful time tomorrow! :D

(I thought Ghostshadow's quote might clue in some who don't realize I'm a girl.)

I would have thought the kitten gave it away, but what do I know!:D
 
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I would have thought the kitten gave it away, but what do I know!:D

yes, usually kitten would give it away but i guess the stigmatism of men on forums is hard to shake
 
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Hey everyone :D

Just finished an 8 hour shift at the bar, rather tired but in the end, it pays my way so I can get to university each day and have a half decent social life :)

But with work... comes sleepyness :p

Night Night all

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Hi All, I haven't been on the forum much in the last day and a half - Monday is Canadian Thanksgiving and I have traveled up to Toronto to spend Thanksgiving with family there. So, I will be on sporadically, but for the most part, I hope to be lying around groaning about having eaten too much turkey!! :D

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!
 
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Hope you have a good one Mac57!!! Yummm....I can't wait for Thanksgiving here!! I really love this time of the year...Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc...

BTW, I bought my costume today. I'm going to be Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz! :D
 
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Hey everyone, this is my first poke in a little over a week I think. I just didn't have time to get on the computer this week for maybe only 2 minutes at a time. School has been so stressful this week it's not even funny.

My situation with that girl has gotten even worse. I still have not been able to talk to her about anything. I want to talk to her face to face about it, but it looks as though I'll just have to do it over the phone. She has been avoiding me for 2 weeks now. I was supposed to meet up with her after work Wed. night but she only talked to me for 5 minutes when I was at work and then left saying she was going to the bars with some friends, even though the day before that she said we would hang out that night when I got off work. Thursday night I was at the bar with some of my friends. When we got out my best friend told me she was there, that he saw her and she looked over at us a couple of times but made no attempt to come talk to me. She told me that she was going back to her hometown today, then coming back up for work tomorrow. Well since all my roomates went back home also, I decided to go rent a movie. As I'm on my way to Blockbuster, guess who I see walking down the street. She was with 2 of her friends.

This frustrates me so much and I don't know why people do this. Are people too scared to be honest with people?

Sorry, I just had to vent a little bit as I JUST walked back in the door to an empty apartment. I didn't even end up renting a movie, I drove right back home since I probably wouldn't even pay attention to the movie anyways, just wondering about why I'm being treated like this.

This problem, school, work, and the Cubs being swept in the series just really makes this week even worse than it originally was.
 
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Wow, I guess we're all having relationship issues...
 
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Yes, I just now read those Netty. It sounds as though yours is a bit worse than mine, from my point of view anyways. You have a big decision on your hands whereas I just want an explanation of whats happening.

My advice is to have as much fun as possible tomorrow. Do whatever you feel will make you the happiest in the future. Sorry, I'm not very good at advice on long-term relationships, seems as though I can never keep one. Or if I do find one I really like (like the one now) I fall too attached to them and it never ends up working out.
 
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Ever notice that most problems seem to be related to relationships. It's so hard to maintain a healthy relationship with anyone. Put just 2 people together and seems they will eventually have problems. Crazy! :|

Todd51 and Netty I do hope you can both get things worked out for yourselves. Life is stressful enough and dealing with rejections and deep hurts can be almost unbearable!

Todd, even in your post, I can feel your pain! Wow...you need some relief. Keep talking about it though...as you know, that helps. ;D

In my long life, I've learned that time will always bring many changes, so try to ride out this storm and get hold of who you are within yourself. You have a lot to offer the right relationship.

Hang in there, things will get better! :)
 
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Thanks Carol, I appreciate the advice.

I know once she actually talks to me I'll be able to get over it better. This week though has almost just pushed me to the point of getting aggravated/upset with her. I really hope I don't end up getting an angry tone when I talk to her.
 
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todd51, It has been my experience that things happen for a reason. I have been in your exact same situation and I know what your going through. The 2 Girlfriends I had before I met my wife acted the same way as yours is acting now. After a few months they started being distant and avoiding me, I later came to find out that they were really just interested in partying and didn't really want to be in a relationship. But in the end it all worked out because I met my wife like 2 weeks after I broke up with my previous girlfriend. She is the most wonderful person I have ever met and I couldn't be happier. Good luck to you in your problem, just keep a positive attitude and know that things will work out for the best.

Netty, good luck to you as well. You have to ultimately make the decision that is best for you. If you fill the need to look else where for affection then perhaps the person you are with is not right for you and it is time for a change. Only you can answer this though and I wish you the best.
 
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