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Fwiw, I work odd hours, ones I choose so we can raise our daughter without outside childcare. My wife works half time. We have a mortgage on my income alone, far below the amount for which together we could qualify. We have modest vehicles. Our bills - our debts - are few.
We eat meals together, and Sundays are often a candlelight meal, even if served at lunchtime and even if the fare isn't quite exotic. I usually cook that. It's a celebration.
I could easily switch roles with my wife. I can't think of a better job than raising our daughter, which I do anyway, but not as much as my wife. At the same time, I'm good at what I do. I have some successes in it. I also have to create. If I didn't, I'd be on a path to madness, a path I've vowed I'll never follow.
I'll posit that even my passion is a bit artificial. Still, I need to support my family, which is my primary focus. I could probably be a decent homesteader, surviving more on drive if not exactly the finest of talent. I find however I have a talent for math et al, and I allow it to flow as art with me.
In the end I'm just trying to survive, and I simply look for what works best for my situation.
We eat meals together, and Sundays are often a candlelight meal, even if served at lunchtime and even if the fare isn't quite exotic. I usually cook that. It's a celebration.
I could easily switch roles with my wife. I can't think of a better job than raising our daughter, which I do anyway, but not as much as my wife. At the same time, I'm good at what I do. I have some successes in it. I also have to create. If I didn't, I'd be on a path to madness, a path I've vowed I'll never follow.
I'll posit that even my passion is a bit artificial. Still, I need to support my family, which is my primary focus. I could probably be a decent homesteader, surviving more on drive if not exactly the finest of talent. I find however I have a talent for math et al, and I allow it to flow as art with me.
In the end I'm just trying to survive, and I simply look for what works best for my situation.