May I express my contribution by giving you my experience?
Some years ago, my wife had an iPad and an iPhone, bought by me and directly linked to my Apple ID.
My Apple ID also included, at that time, my Mac, my iPad and my iPhone.
So ALL the Devices in our home were linked to MY Apple ID. This can work and, indeed, worked for about 4 years including, in that time period, replacement iPhones and iPads for both of us.
But to achieve this and have it work properly, it meant that HER Devices were, as far as Apple was concerned, MINE. For example; her iPhone and my iPhone had to be set up such that all phone calls and all Messages went to her exclusively and ditto all my calls/messages went only to me. I set things up such that if I my wife could call me from her iPhone (technically mine) to my iPhone (again mine). No big deal, but just something else to do.
It can be done: obviously as we did this!! But it does take quite a bit of effort to separate Messages and the like. I could certainly walk you through the requirements which are more time consuming than difficult.
All of the above relate to iDevices. Having both your computers linked to your Apple ID, is tricky and more or less, means that you have to be careful about apps, Messages and so on because you, and only you, have access to the App Store. A touch complicated. But doable.
BUT: there's another way round all this: Why not at least keep your Computers linked to her ID and your ID as just now. What you could then do is you SHARE things like Calendars, Photos, Music etc with her Mac.
I've said enough. Think very carefully about Plan 1 - everything on your Apple ID and think about Pan 2 - at least for Computers, keeping them linked to your/her ID.
I'll try to help you all I can with either scenario.
Ian
Ian
