Offensive?? Really? The Administrator was doing his job. His job is to keep this board running smoothly. The OP was warned to not cross post. The OP apologized and clarified his/her question. The OP got their questions answered.
So why were you offended? Nothing was directed at you.
You are correct when you say a lot of boards are very offensive and ridicule people when they post. I believe that is well controlled here by the board administrator and moderators. In order to keep people from creating cross posts or being ridiculous, sometimes they have to be strong in their warnings in order to not be forced to ban a person from the forum. Which is better a strong warning or just ban them so no one gets offended?
Please be aware I am asking you to think about the responsibilities of the people who work very hard to make this forum work. Many hours are spent reading, posting, moving posts, and maintaining forum areas. All this because they want to share their knowledge with others in a positive environment which sometimes has to be defended.
Oh, and I am not blasting you - just giving you my thoughts.
Lisa