Man, this is nuts. I'm changing my mind left and right! Now all of my co-workers want me to get an Xbox! But if I do get one it won't be because they want me to. However, I quizzed a bunch of them, making sure that they had used or have both systems.
The biggest reason that every single one of them came up with for going with the Xbox was that the online play was simply smoother hands down. Not that the community was bigger or that the people were more or less rude, but simply that the set up was easier, and that the flow was better and the network is just better in general, more fluid. Funny thing, there was a group of people around me, and I made an announcement: "OK, Xbox or PS3?!" Three people immediately said PS3. I asked why, and they said that it was great. I asked if they played online and then they asked if I was concerned more about online gaming. After saying yes, they changed their tune and said "Oh, never mind then. 360 without a doubt".
Each of them agreed upon the same thing, that the online game play is just a more fluid experience with the 360 and that everything related to the network experience was better, from the GUI to the setup and maintenance.
I was also told that Kinnect is very precise and has a great motion sensor games for it, especially the dance ones, which is for my wife. On the other hand, the consensus was that the PS3 is hands down better if multi player online gaming isn't as big a deal to me as media consumption. It was also said that games do look better on the PS3, but for me, that's hardly an issue so long as I can have fun. I'm not pixel peeping games!
What else.... I was told that the current generation of 360's don't suffer the same red ring fate as the older batches do, so that's a bit comforting I suppose. Later on I had a conversation with a guy I usually talk to about tech, as he's very savvy and not biased towards Apple much like myself. He explained that Microsoft not only employs an outside source for their network integration, but that they also have in-house administration to take care of their security. This is just the opposite of what Sony does, as they only have an outside source taking care of their network implementation and this leaves too many holes open since it's not guarded very well. Hence the 2 hacks to their network in just months. It was also said that they were almost hacked a third time as well.
I even asked one of my managers if he was a gamer, and his immediate reaction was to go for the 360 as well, and for the same reason as the others... the online experience vs that of the PS3.
So, the tides have turned once again and at this point, the only way I'll learn the truth is to go with my gut and try one out for myself. Stay tuned I guess!
Doug