I'm not quite sure why people have a fear of a health care system with government involvement. To clear something up, I need to explain something. People frequently take Canada as an example of a country with government run health care which is, to a certain extent, incorrect. While there is government involvement, the provincial governments actually provide insurance for each person. So, in other words, they provide me with health insurance just like you get it from a private company. My costs though are regulated by a ministry not motivated by profit and making money at all costs (including denying coverage). I have never been denied coverage nor have I ever heard of anyone ever being denied coverage.
I realize that some people say that a public system puts a politician between me and my doctor. Aside from the obvious fallacy posited in this assertion, if it was true, how would this be any different from an insurance broker being between me and my doctor now that the Canadian system has been explained a little better? Either way, there is someone between you and your doctor and this won't change until costs of medical equipment and treatment somehow plummet, which won't happen anytime soon.
I'm not trying to be argumentative but I wanted to clear the public system up and how it's run. Would you care to explain why there is such a fear that a public system, where I have never seen a medical bill in my life, is such a bad thing? I understand that some fear medicine will become bureaucratized but if I never see a bill and just show my health card when I go to the doctors, I fail to see how this is more inefficient. I also know you are going to use the "hospitals are inefficient and have long wait times". That's not true and take it from someone who has had to go to hospitals under a public system his entire life. You can't claim that the public system is flawed if you have never experienced yourself. The fact that most developed nations have some form of nationalized/public health care must mean something is right about it.
I can't say I relate (see above) but seeing that someone has to do the aforementioned for what had happened gets me frustrated. I'm sorry that you have to go to such great lengths to pay for this. I am glad though that nothing is seriously wrong with your father.
I will also be civil and constructive in this discussion despite my strong opinions and beliefs about this topic. You have my word.