new mac user , need help!

Hi. ive used windows for 13 years and i just got my first mac 6 days ago and i love ,im never going back , im now pretty familar with the operating system however i cant figure out 1 thing if its even possible, i wanna change the color of the menu bar on the top of the screen, can i do that? if so how?thanks
Im talking about the bar on the top of ur desktop that has the mac apple on it and the clock and all that stuff (just incase its not called a menubar)

You can't without 3rd party software. Don't know why you would want to but heres a link anyway (It's free)

http://www.macupdate.com/info.php/id/26081

The only thing you can do natively is make the menu bar translucent. Control-click on the Desktop and select "Change Desktop Background". You'll see the "Translucent Menu Bar" option on the bottom of that pane.

If you alter the desktop image so it has a coloured strip along the top, you can achieve the same effect.

Yeah theres not a whole lot of customization as far as skins or colors that come with the mac. I'm the same way, I like changing and personalizing it but meh you get over it. But thats just me.