I have to admit the insulin pump does not really appeal to me. Id rather get used to the injections! It will definitely be horrible for the first few weeks. Im keeping an open mind and reading all the material I can find on it. I am seeing a specialist next week too!
I agree with you the last thing i want is one of those pumps and all the attending problems, but, sometimes they are necessary to maintain a decent level which is important in the long run.
I have been an insulin dependent diabetic for about 35 years now. I was a bit luckier than you, i didn't develop it until about 40, but pretty much the same routine works for both. Learn to test your levels from 3 to 4 times a day and try hard to maintain a decent level of 90 to 110. It isn't easy as i am sure you have already learned because everything you eat almost seems to go right to sugar. And even when you don't eat!!!
A good test meter is essential. The new meters today are great, only takes 5 seconds to get a reading and you only need half the amount of blood the old meters of 40 years ago took. And most of them will allow you to take blood from your forarms instead of out of the finger tips which is a great help too as the old fingers tend to get rather tender when your testing 3 and 4 times a day.
Sticking in that old needle is the hardest thing to do, at first, but when you learn how there ain't nutin to it... The old tummy is a good place to start as you usually will have a little fat there to work with and when done properly you can be watching it go in and not even feel it... the tops of your legs above the knees is also a good place to inject. Now and then you will hit a nerve, but just back off and move over an inch.
Your life has changed somewhat now. Like the fellow said a few messages ago "diabetes is a word, not a sentence". You can live with it and you can pretty much live a normal life, you just have to keep on it and don't let it get out of hand. A good endocrinologist can be of great help to you in gaining and maintaining control so pay attention when he/she tells you something.
Good luck my friend, here's to a long and healthy life.