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can i get some advice on this girl i like from dating site?

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This new girl started talking to me, and we have TONS in common, and i really like her, we hoping to go out this weekend or the next, but i'm scared because another girl planned to go out last week which we made plans a week in advance, but Idk if its cuz i didnt talk to her enough while waiting for the date, she just stopped talking to me and it didnt work out with her (another girl)

here is our conversation, the blue line are me, the pink lines are her.

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http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h276/L...70bad4.png

http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h276/L...4e7f79.png

so basically i gave her my # last night, and she said ok....so when should i send her a message again on dating site just to check in on her? or should i just wait for if she sends me a text this weekend for the date? with one girl i felt like i didnt talk to her enough and she thought i wasnt interested or something.

so should i maybe not contact her today, but then send her a message tomorrow to see how she is doing? or maybe the day after and talk to her every other day or every 2 days until we meet? or everyday?

im kinda scared cuz this girl is pretty, pretty - and she online a lot so scared she will someone better Shock but overall we click a lot I think.

thanks
 

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The best advice I can give is what I gave my son.

"If being yourself and acting the way you naturally would act scares someone away, they weren't right for you."
 

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