You've given yourself the best advice right there. The less you try to remake the Mac in the image of your Windows experience, the better off you'll be. When you're pounding your head on the desk wondering why "this isn't working they way I expected it to" that's the time to "unlearn" Windows and learn the Macintosh way.
I am well on my way after just one weekend with it. Fortunately, I'm also an experienced software developer and IT Architect, and I'm also planning on using it for developing IOS apps...I used to code Objective C back in the NeXT computing days. So far, so good, although, the "airplay" thing is confusing, and moving all my music from my PC to my Mac was an ORDEAL! I finally got a big ***** thumb drive, and simply imported it THAT way...I have nearly 10,000 songs, many of which are "ripped" from old (and by OLD, I mean CDs I bought back when CDs were brand spanking new!).
Anyway, I've mostly got things sorted out....my 63" Samsung DLP HDTV is the BEST monitor, and I get to sit in my Ekornes Stressless chair, and compute...and the Fusion drive is AMAZINGLY fast.
Downsides....the whole video codex crap that all the current OS folks are going through, is just STUPID...
I did get the after-market Blu-Ray, DVD/CD Burner...and it works FAMOUSLY with plain old CDs and DVDs...the blu ray is the kicker here.
Cheers,
Michael