well, the router fix only worked for a day. Or maybe not at all. After extensive troubleshooting, I think I've isolated the problem down to YouTube on my home network. All of the computers on my home network (macbook pro, ipad, 3 year old desktop pc, 3 year old toshiba laptop) have excellent speeds and return results like the one below.
All of them can stream netflix, HBO and sites like Vimeo in HD perfectly. When it comes to YouTube, though, the buffering nightmare begins. So, I'm not sure if this problem belongs in an Apple forum or not. My MacBook is clearly not the problem.
I'm baffled though how this began for both my wife and I the same day about 2 weeks ago. We watch videos on a daily basis and both started experiencing the buffering problem the same day about 2 weeks ago with no end in sight. If the problem was happening to everyone, I would expect to see posts everywhere. My wife said YouTube videos worked fine today on her iPad on her wireless work network. I know that's anecdotal and I'll probably bring my macbook into work tomorrow to see if I get the same results. I don't think I'm providing enough information to get a solution, but figured I would update this thread with my pressing 1st world problem.
Thanks for any feedback.