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Long story short Im separated and have been for 6 years. The divorce papers havnt gone through.
My ex over the holidays has turned nasty towards me and came back with threats of Restricted Access to my beautiful 7 yr old boy, AVO's (Apprehended Violence Order).
Now im not sure WHY she is doing this too me at all.
ATM i have full access to my boy, as we have never needed to restrict anything with either of us, and i really dont want to deprive my child time with his mother.
My question is, ((and yes some will probably look down on me for thinking this, and i really dont care what you think) so to you people i dont even want to see your reply if you have on) My question is, Because i have full access and no restrictions, would it be Kidnapping if i got my boy and took him away so i could live with him, and let her fight to get him back ?? Is it classed as kidnapping.
I want my boy to be happy and i want him to live with me, but she is really giving my not much choice here. I could go to court and try for full custody, so what are a Males chances in this scenario ??
I want peoples opinions, thoughts and options if i could please . . .
I have been diagnosed with Depression coming from my army days. I have lived with it for the last 16-17 yrs and i have turns here and there. Over the Xmas break i have had one of those turns, and im in the gutter. I have pulled myself out before, and gotten on with life but ATM, with loosing work, and having no family to be able to spend xmas with, not having my son around for 3 weeks has all taken its toll.
How have some of you gotten through the bad times ?? Remember Depression isnt like being sad or upset, its a full on debilitating sickness..... Chemicals (anti-depressants) have never worked, and as i said i have just pulled myself through it....
Im at my whits end ATM and with this sh1t going on with my son, it just isnt going north for me.......
Once again any suggestions, options would be greeted with respect . . . .I dont need to here negative stuff ATM...
Thanks for reading, and i didnt do this for sympathy but for solutions and suggestions on how to over come this
Cheers
My ex over the holidays has turned nasty towards me and came back with threats of Restricted Access to my beautiful 7 yr old boy, AVO's (Apprehended Violence Order).
Now im not sure WHY she is doing this too me at all.
ATM i have full access to my boy, as we have never needed to restrict anything with either of us, and i really dont want to deprive my child time with his mother.
My question is, ((and yes some will probably look down on me for thinking this, and i really dont care what you think) so to you people i dont even want to see your reply if you have on) My question is, Because i have full access and no restrictions, would it be Kidnapping if i got my boy and took him away so i could live with him, and let her fight to get him back ?? Is it classed as kidnapping.
I want my boy to be happy and i want him to live with me, but she is really giving my not much choice here. I could go to court and try for full custody, so what are a Males chances in this scenario ??
I want peoples opinions, thoughts and options if i could please . . .
I have been diagnosed with Depression coming from my army days. I have lived with it for the last 16-17 yrs and i have turns here and there. Over the Xmas break i have had one of those turns, and im in the gutter. I have pulled myself out before, and gotten on with life but ATM, with loosing work, and having no family to be able to spend xmas with, not having my son around for 3 weeks has all taken its toll.
How have some of you gotten through the bad times ?? Remember Depression isnt like being sad or upset, its a full on debilitating sickness..... Chemicals (anti-depressants) have never worked, and as i said i have just pulled myself through it....
Im at my whits end ATM and with this sh1t going on with my son, it just isnt going north for me.......
Once again any suggestions, options would be greeted with respect . . . .I dont need to here negative stuff ATM...
Thanks for reading, and i didnt do this for sympathy but for solutions and suggestions on how to over come this
Cheers