I've kept quiet about this for a long time, I guess because I wanted to see what would happen after a while, what proof there would be in terms of a botched design or not, and what Apple would do etc..
The truth of it is that it absolutely IS a design flaw (and please don't ever say design compromise because that is bologna) which has put Apple in their current position and why they're able to spin their PR machine well enough with giving away free cases.
Sure, you can grip pretty much any phone out there with two hands or find the spot where the level of conductance is highest, and you'll likely be able to degrade the signal's dB level to the point where a bar or two will drop. This isn't the point here though. The point of it all is that the iPhone 4 was designed as such, where the antenna is in the most used and sensitive part of the case, and has the added negative bonus of using the part of a persons palm to bridge the antenna and cause the conductance to degrade the signal far WORSE than any phone normally would.
A case will fix the symptoms, but we ALL know that this too is not the point. I think it's pretty sad that some of our more intelligent and loyal Apple fans here just tend to brush off any possibilities where something isn't up to par and give other's the same old boring: " you don't like it, don't buy it" routine. That borders on being insultingly dismissive as well as being closed minded and in denial of the situation.
Had Apple taken a bit more time, and just put some sort of coating on the phones before shipping them out, this wouldn't even be an issue. ATT's cruddy network only helps to escalate the situation, I'm sure, because it would be logical for phones in an already poor signal area to experience more dropped calls when the phone isn't held "the right way".
And for the record, I can not for the life of me, put any sort of death grip hold on my 3G and get bars to diminish. Nor can I do so on my wife's crappy Palm Centro, nor my friend's 3GS, or my brother in law's Nokia (don't remember the model) or even my Sony Ericsson from 3 years ago. In fact, that thing has better network reception than my 3G. And it's small enough for me to cover the entire phone with one hand. I guess YMMV depending on carrier and proximity to cell towers.
Sad part is, I WAS actually looking forward to getting the iP4 upon returning to the States on Aug 17th, but I'm not even going to bother now. I don't even really care about Verizon at this point either. Interestingly enough, I'm actually looking at Sprint, of all Carriers. The EVO 4G, is mighty good looking with Sprint offering unlimited data plans, and being able to use the phone as a 3g wifi hotspot, I'm pretty sold on that. And I know that Sprint coverage in NY is very good, so not even worried about that either. I'm glad so many people are going with Verizon and ATT because of the iPhone, it just frees up more resources for the smaller guys.
Anyway, maybe I'll join you guys when we see the iP5. Things should be well sorted out by then. Maybe even Facetime over 3 or dare I say, 4G by then ?
Doug