Just updating you guys again, my wife's iPad came yesterday, and we are both totally loving them. Since we got them we have both barely touched our laptops. At this point, the only things I will use my laptop for is programming, media management (we get our shows through iTunes, and although I can technically download shows on the iPad, I need my laptop/externals to store them), and gaming (cant get my WoW fix on the iPad) but every other use, web browsing, watching videos, and writing has shifted to the iPad. I'm also reading books on the iPad, the amount of free classic books available in the ibookstore is amazing!
As you can see, I really love my iPad. I would strongly recommend it to anyone who is on the fence about buying it.