First of all, there is no need to be confrontational. I'm trying to have an intelligent and spirited conversation about privacy. Should you continue this way, you'll get the thread locked and since you want to help this person, I don't think that's what you want.
I agree with your first point wholeheartedly. Everyone has the right to privacy - I wouldn't have linked to FIPPA earlier if I didn't. This does not mean though that you need to be paranoid about your privacy. There are already measures in place in many jurisdictions to protect your privacy. If you go for a bike ride, do you wear a full suit of armour or does a helmet suffice? The point I'm trying to make is that there is being safe or private and there is being paranoid safe or private. For me, there is no justifiable reason for the latter.
As for your second point, I find it contentious. First off, there is no mention on their website that the U.S. government developed Tor. The only mention I found of government involvement was the following: "A branch of the U.S. Navy uses Tor for open source intelligence gathering, and one of its teams used Tor while deployed in the Middle East recently. Law enforcement uses Tor for visiting or surveilling web sites without leaving government IP addresses in their web logs, and for security during sting operations." (
source). Use by one branch of one division of the military does not constitute development involvement. In fact, while the military might have helped development at some point, it is now a non-profit organization responsible for development (
source). Second, just because the U.S. military uses it doesn't mean it is the most secure, most impenetrable piece of software ever written. While I'm sure they have high standards, nothing is perfect as illustrated by the links I provided earlier (which you evidently didn't read). If one man can get emails sent from embassies (
source), I'm sure a concerted effort could be used to collect much more important data through Tor if there was a need. The fact that the project page itself states that, "Tor can't solve all anonymity problems" (
source) should be evidence enough that it's not perfect.
There is no need to insinuate that I don't know what I'm talking about if I'm providing links to give credence to my arguments. You may disagree (and I welcome this) but there is no need to argue against my ability (or lack thereof according to you) to make an argument. Argue the point, not the person. I want this to be a good conversation about security and privacy. I'm questioning the ability of Tor to do what the OP has requested and you disagree.
This response is part of a response to the OP. You suggested Tor and I would like to show that it isn't perfect. I would like to question the, and I quote the OP, "basic security" of Tor. From what I have read, it doesn't seem that hard to get users data.