That happened to me too! Awful condition I was in- distress!!
Anyway, DONT PANIC - I have the solution!
Firstly, check that the icon isn't hidden, to do that, you are going to need to open up Terminal. You will find it here:
Applications --> Utilities.
Once Terminal is opened, you are going to need to get it to show all hidden icons. To do this type this into Terminal:
defaults write com.apple.finder AppleShowAllFiles -bool true
Then, relaunch Finder, and type this command:
killall Finder
(These commands are case sensitive!)
Now, HOPEFULLY, your third internal Hard drive should show up on the desktop, along with few other files. You may not have seen these files before, but DO NOT delete them - MAC OS X needs them to perform correctly.
Once the problem is fixed, you may want to re-hide those other files that appeared on your desktop. To do that, reopen Terminal and type in the following command:
defaults write com.apple.finder AppleShowAllFiles -bool false
Then, relaunch Terminal, and type in the following command:
killall Finder
!!! Remember, these commands are case sensitive !!!
Hope this helped!
Good Luck!