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    There is no one good answer to this question. Everyone will give you a different opinion and all of them will be right to a certain degree (maybe not all of them). Do whatever you think is right - only you know best what the relationship between you and this girl is best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vansmith View Post
    There is no one good answer to this question. Everyone will give you a different opinion and all of them will be right to a certain degree (maybe not all of them). Do whatever you think is right - only you know best what the relationship between you and this girl is best.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Clueless View Post
    It was a fairly short term relationship which broke up because he treated her like a doormat, which she obviously didn't like!
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    That should tell you something about the girl, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by quicksilver View Post
    Always a tricky one to call... I managed to play this is just right a few years ago... and married her in May this year!

    I found that the easiest thing to do was be honest - to a point - tell her how you feel in a non-threatening "off the cuff" kinda way. Stuff like "well if I was your boyfriend I would..."
    I'd go along with this advice. But I'd also do like someone else suggested and be there for her and take her mind off of things. Then in a day or two when you guys are alone, have a conversation like quicksilver suggested. Maybe cross the "friends" boundary by flirting with her and see how she responds (not anything bad!) Give her a back massage to relieve her "stress," hint about being her gf, etc.

    And like someone above me also said, use your best judgement. Only you really know when would be the right moment to try to make a move.
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