I have a Nextlink Bluespoon Spider stereo bluetooth headset that I use with my cell phone to listen to music and make phone calls. I want to do the same with my MacBook. I want to use it with Skype and iTunes on my MacBook.

I have paired it alright but how do I get it to connect? When I check the Bluetooth preferences on my MacBook it says that is is paired but not connected.

Please advice!