1) Too bad. This isn't Windows.
2) I'm not sure I agree as tasks can be entered into and synced via iCal. It's not the same as Windows, but it is doable.
3) Too bad. This isn't Windows and there is no Outlook on the Mac either (although Entourages is *close*).
4) Ya, this should be an option. iCal on the iPhone has a way to go before it catches up with the Mac version.
5) Agreed.
6) You can buy an App like FILEMAGNET for $4.99 and sync it via your wireless network. Works fine and is worth the $$$.
7) Even my Palm had this feature but I almost never used it. I only have ~400 contacts and searching isn't that hard.
8) Good question. We know that companies like TomTom have the software waiting for Apple to let it into the store but who knows if it will ever happen. I'd like to see this too, or at least have Apple add more to the GPS capabilities.
9) I'd like to see iWork, Pages and Keynote and I suspect Apple will eventually release them. I don't expect to ever see M$ Office apps (and don't want to) but who knows.
Perhaps you should have done a bit more research before making the leap or be willing to lose Outlook for Mail. Bottom line, you are being stopped by 1, 2, 3 & 9. If they are absolute show stoppers, then sell your iPhone and go back to Windows Mobile.
EDIT: I would also recommend perusing the
iLounge forums. You'll find a lot more Windows/iPhone users there than here.