You know...
Before I picked up my macbook pro I was trying to decide between this or a PC....which so far are the only ones that feature a quad core or i7 for laptops. Of course there's a reason apple hasn't introduced it just yet to notebooks....heat...size...etc
Anyway...
I run a lot of applications at one time..literally about 5-10 at one time. In fact I have 7 open right now as I write this. That includes dreamweaver, iphoto and Photoshop. I have ZERO problems or speed issues at the moment. Haven't run into any yet. I was so concerned that I would need more power out of a processor than a core 2 duo could deliver, but so far it seems that the core 2 is just right for me. I have the 2.8ghz not even the 3.06.
Don't forget that people got along just fine with core 2 before the i7 was ever even offered. In fact people for the most part got along great. This WITH heavy tasking, applications and many professional applications.
BUT...
All that being said...if mac did offer (or when they eventually do) offer quad core's on their notebooks, you can bet that I will jump on it...well in a while from now anyway just picked up this baby. You will notice a performance different IF...and stress IF you're tasking the system heavily enough. Otherwise there's isn't going to be too much of a difference that you'll be noticing in my honest opinion.
If you have the cash, and it's not a problem for you to pay the prem. then I say go all out and get the i7. That would be one SWEET machine!
Good luck!